The real fun started when Santa came. Ben was standing in the aisle when Santa headed his way. He literally dove into the nearest chair and started crying. One of our friends picked him up and held him at the back of the room. He was terrified, to the point of shaking. We tried telling him that Santa was nice and gives out candy, but he wanted nothing to do him. He didn't take his eyes off him the whole time he was there and refused to be put down until Santa had clearly left the building.
When we got home, Spencer decided to show Ben what a nice guy Santa is. He got all dressed up and brought his bag of toys. Ben looked a little startled at first, but quickly recovered and climbed on "Santa's" lap. I think he suspected that it was Spencer. I'm not sure what gave it away. Maybe he recognized his size 2T pants that Santa didn't quite fit into.
I think this was helpful for him. Seeing the thing you fear the most dressed in pants five sizes too small has to help you overcome that fear.
(Whoops! Santa shouldn't bend over while wearing size 2T pants.)
You gotta hand it to Spencer. What a kid! As for Ben...? Maybe next year.
ReplyDeleteLOL. So funny.
ReplyDeleteAwesome! We went to the party for the same reason you did... I didn't want to cook. But we didn't have enough time to actually do anything but eat.
ReplyDeleteWow that is so awesome that he did that for his brother...what an imagination! I can't wait to meet the boys and you two! Maybe we can plan a long weekend soon.
ReplyDeleteI am dying laughing!! I forgot how funny you were :) I loved everything you said, about not making dinner, that is totally my reason to go to ANY ward party.
ReplyDeleteLoved your story. I miss you tons and know our boys would love playing!! I will read on and find out what else is happening with the Murray family.
I'm glad that Ben finally decided that Santa wasn't too scary. He was so funny at the party!
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